Hi Kaitlin,
Please tell us your experience in training Bella to be left alone. How old was she when you started training, how long did it take, what method(s) did you follow, how many times per day did you do the training, etc. River is great about sleeping in her kennel overnight (occasionally mild whimpering but not for too long) and eats a portion of her meals in the kennel but when we try and leave her in the kennel during the day (at beginning of a nap time), she'll cry/whimper for as long as 5-10 minutes. We'll say "Hush, good girl" when she is quiet and eventually she'll stop whimpering and is quiet for maybe 10-20 minutes. One article I read said if the dog continues to cry, you are starting this training too early. Another article said leave a toy or food-stuffed kong in the kennel but I don't like the idea of leaving something in the kennel then going out.
Your experiences and how you did it will help us make a plan for how to move forward. River is 13 weeks and we feel we must get this conquered or we'll never be able to leave her!
Thanks so much!!
Faith